One-night stand in confusion
One-night stand of the confusion: suspension of anxiety and depression, but not the individual solution of a number of crises
One-night stand can only 1:00 to ease some anxiety and depression, it can not be alleviated permanently. In other words, One-night stand to meet with a person's physical desires, it is also cheating with a person's soul. As a result, the kind of count on One-night stand after the men and women will have feelings, or even the idea of marriage, mostly in self-deception.
One-night stand would cause a lot of personal crisis, such as the moral crisis, for the indulgence of self-condemnation, especially for people with families in terms of, One-night stand is a species of psychological life of fresh spices, but the more self-induced psychological crisis and family crisis. Not long ago, there was a fire in a book called "break up after daybreak, said," talking about the 19 urban women in Record One-night stand. Some of them were addicted to indulgence, and some people are out of control 1:00; some people indulge after the rude awakening, and some of whom are apathetic.
French sexologist Alan esil pointed out that the desire of men are more affected by the physical chemistry of the need to vent a timely manner, while women's desires are even more affected by the brain needs to pave the way full. Therefore, men in search of One-night stand is the stimulation and fresh, while women are seeking affection and hope. In other words, men try to One-night stand, and it ended mostly a dot, sex is a starting point, is also a destination; while women try to One-night stand, the outcome is mostly a triangle, sex, love, self-protection Shou-3 Line side.
The United States the name of a marriage counselor Gray has a view that "man drill hole, a woman well-digging." That is, when the men are frustrated, his first thought was to escape, just as the hole is not out of hiding places, and then gradually restored; while women setbacks, her first thought was for help, such as submerged in the bottom wait for rescue, is very eager to get other people's understanding and comfort. Thus, One-night stand is often the purpose is not in itself, but rather to relieve the emotional tension. In fact, physiological studies have shown that people are at tension, the sex hormones will be activated, sexual desire tends to increase. One-night stand, what the parties will in the end, I am afraid that only the conscience of both men and women know best.
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