Well-known psychological effect: Romeo and Juliet Effect
Shakespeare's famous play "Romeo and Juliet" depicts the tragedy of Romeo and Juliet's love, they loved each other deeply, but because the two are feuding, the feelings of other members of the family is not recognized by the parents of both blocking . However, their feelings and there is no interference because the parents have the slightest weakening, but a deeper love and eventually died of both sentimentalism.
In real life, they often see this phenomenon, the parents could not interfere not only weaken the love between lovers, but so emotional to be strengthened. The more parents to interfere against the more intense the love that people fall in love more deeply, a phenomenon psychologists known as the "Romeo and Juliet effect." Why is there such a phenomenon? This is because people have a need for autonomy, independence and hope that they can, but he is unwilling to be controlled by a puppet, once more kitchen Daipao others, instead of their own choice, and this choice imposed on yourself will feel that their sovereignty is threatened, thereby creating a psychological resistance, exclusion, forced to choose their own things at the same time forced to lose even more like their own things, it is this psychological mechanism has led to Romeo and Juliet continued from generation to generation love story staged.
Psychologists study also found that the more difficult to get things in people's minds the position of the higher value the greater the more attractive for people to easily get something, or what has been, its value tends to be were ignored. A popular saying in China such a "wife not as good as concubine, concubine than steal it, steal not as good as stealing Buzhuo", that this reasoning.
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